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Your Team Has Stopped Bringing You Their Best Ideas


You might not have noticed.

But they have.


In my last two posts, I discussed two of the most dangerous diseases:

Complacentia -Post | LinkedIn and Victimitis -Post | LinkedIn.


Here is another equally dangerous one – Pessimism. I call it Pessimia.


When a leader carries Pessimia - Contagious Negative Outlook Disorder, the team feels it before the leader does.


When Teams Start Withdrawing

They stop pitching bold ideas.

They start pre-editing their enthusiasm.

They show up… but not fully.


Because somewhere along the way, they learned:

𝘐𝘵’𝘴 𝘴𝘢𝘧𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘴𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 him or 𝘩𝘦𝘳.


The truth is that pessimism is airborne.

It doesn’t need a memo. It doesn’t need a meeting.

It lives in your sighs. Your “yeah, but…”

Your reaction when someone brings a new idea.


Leaders set the temperature.

What atmosphere are you creating?


In my experience of coaching leaders through this:

I found that most pessimists aren’t negative per se. They’re unprocessed realists who never got permission to hope out loud.


The cure is Intentional Optimism.

Try the 3G practice every morning:

  • 𝗚𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲 – one thing, right now

  • 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 – one win from yesterday

  • 𝗚𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗣𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 – what could go RIGHT today?


Same strength. New direction.

From scanning for danger to scanning for possibility.


Curious which attitude disease is affecting YOUR leadership?

Book a free Discovery Call and start leading with intention.


Remember, you can’t build a positive culture with a pessimistic attitude.




BISOLA MOGAJI

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