After a recent work transition, my first instinct was to shut the door on the past and sprint toward what’s next. Clean slate. New experiences. No looking back. But I paused. Because here’s the truth, many of us avoid: An experience you don’t learn from is one you’re likely to repeat.                 So, I did the uncomfortable thing. I sat still.         I evaluated it all: ✔️ the good ❌ the bad ⚠️ and yes… the ugly What surprised me? The process was exhilarating .